Saturday, April 26, 2008
It's Official
I got a call from my lawyer today. Slugger's adoption certificate was signed on April 16, 2008. We are finally, blissfully, and officially a family. Slugger and I went out to dinner tonight and we came up with the top ten reasons that it's a good thing the adoption is final. I wish I could remember them all, but I do know that I'll always remember the tenth one. Slugger came up with it and he decided we had to say it together. So, on the count of four (don't ask me why four instead of three... that's just Slugger) we both said "We're one, big, happy family."

And ain't it the truth.
90 Comments:
Blogger Chelley said...
I am sitting here in tears....

I hoped that it was all done and that you are a FAMILY hey not that you havent been doing that for the last how many months!!!

But oh Maggie and Slugger I am sending my heartfelt love to you both at this time!!

AND to see the handsome little man he is.......
More tears!!!!!!

Blogger Chelley said...
Now I want a family photo!!!!!

PLEASE!!!!

Blogger kate said...
perfect.

and congratulations!!

Blogger Her Grace said...
Yay!!!!!!!!!!

He's so handsome. I'm glad you can share him with all of your supporters now.

Congratulations! We're all so happy for you over here!

Blogger Rachael said...
Congratulations!!!!

Blogger The Mater said...
What a long road for you both; what a rainbow ending! He's beautiful and that wide grin tells it all. Even when the road has a few bumps in it, remember that grin!

Congratulations and all the best to you and your son!

Blogger Diana said...
Congratulations!! What a wonderful day for you. We adopted internationally and our adoption was also final several days before we were acutally able to really celebrate it. We adopted two boys whom we love to pieces, but also came with a lot of baggage.

BTW, I'm a long time lurker finally being drawn out of hiding.

Blogger atlasien said...
Congratulations! I'm so happy for you!

He's a real cutie.

Anonymous baggage said...
Congratulations!!! I am so happy for you!! He's such a cutie!

Anonymous Journeywoman said...
Mazel tov!

What a beautiful beautiful boy.

Blogger Me said...
Congratulations to you both!

Slugger, it's nice to finally see your handsome face!

Blogger Kay B said...
Congratulations Happy Family!!

I'm so glad we get to see more than "wilson" now, It was worth the wait, he is so cute!!

Blogger FosterMommy said...
More tears over here, too.
Congrats! He's even cuter from the front!

Anonymous Julie said...
CONGRATULATIONS!!!

He is a handsome little man, isn't he! Love his smile!

Love the new blog theme too! It's wonderful!

Blogger jr said...
Huge, huge congratulations to you both... and how nice to see his sweet face.

june

Blogger Laurie said...
Congrats! He is one adorable kiddo...and you are a great mom!

Blogger Nicole said...
Congratulations!

It takes a lot to bring out the tears for me, but something about your journey is so touching. I am so happy for you guys and happy to see more pics of this little guy!

Blogger Diana said...
Congratulations!!! I am so happy for you and your gorgeous boy :) What fabulous news!!

Blogger Elle said...
Congrats! That photo of him doing his homework on the counter is still one of my favorites.

Blogger Suz said...
Oh congratulations a million times over! Hooray for Slugger and Maggie - you're official!!

Great looking boy!

Blogger Yondalla said...
YIPPEE!!!!

Blogger Jules said...
Totally, totally awesome news! This rocks!

Hugs and praise be's all around!
Jules, Matt and Slava!

Blogger MelanyTN said...
Congratulations! You son is as cute as I imagined him (even more so). What a perfect match you two are. I've loved following your blog and seeing how you two have grown together as a family.

Blogger sandy said...
Oh Margaret!!! Congratulations! It's so good to see pics of your gorgeous boy! What a smile... =)) What a great day for you both!

Blogger Debbie said...
As with so many things, the little words we have just don't quite seem big enough, but the words are all we've got to work with: CONGRATULATIONS! He's one handsome dude.

Blogger Jo said...
Congratulations!!! I am grinning at my computer like a fool. You have one handsome son. Whoooheeee! If I could choose, I would have a ticker tape parade to celebrate this new family.

Blogger Amy Y said...
Just here from Her Grace's place and wanted to say congrats! How exciting for you both ~ he looks as happy as you sound! :)

Blogger parodie said...
Congratulations! What a wonderful, happy family! :)

OpenID habeshachild said...
OMG!!!!

Congratulations!!!!

What a joy to get to see his face! And please do post a family photo.

I am thrilled beyond words for you.

Blogger Tami said...
Happy tears! Happy tears! Congratulations!!!!! I'm so happy for the both of you. I know it's been a long time in coming. What a handsome son you have there! :)

Blogger Mary said...
Congratulations!

Blogger r. said...
Congrats, Margaret. What a cutie you've got there!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Handsome little dude indeed!!!!! God bless you two <3

Delurking to say that your son is absolutely gorgeous!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Blogger Ronda said...
Congratulations to the both of you! He is just beautiful Margaret. I'm so glad you're finally a family.

Ronda

Blogger Rose said...
De-lurking to say congratulations to you and your gorgous son!

Blogger Mrs. Butter B said...
Gorgeous, handsome, wonderful!


I'm so excited for you guys!!!!

(sent over from Yondalla, FYI)

Blogger Innocent Observer said...
Yea!!!! Congratulations to you both. You make a beautiful family.

And thank you so much for posting some pictures. He was pretty cute in my head, but simply stunning in color!

Blogger fuzzandfuzzlet said...
He is handsome, thanks for sharing the pictures.

Congratulations on being a legal family !!!

Blogger Eos said...
I'm so happy for you...I'm weepy...I DON'T get weepy often!LOL

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Congratulations to both of you! This post got me all choked up too. Slugger is beautiful! In a manly way, of course ;-)

Congratulations! It must be such a relief to finally be official!!! =)

I'm glad to see a picture of him (so much cuter than I imagined), but wondering if you've decided not to share his name ever? Or just not now? Sorry for being so nosey!!



(And my first thought about the countdown thing was, "well, of course you can't count to 3 because that would rhyme with family!" but that's just my own little OCDness talking. lol)

PS- this must be such a bittersweet weekend for you too. *e-hugs*

Anonymous jill said...
He's beautiful. I have read your blog forever it seems and hearing about this kid, he just looks so darn innocent. It makes me sad to think what he's been through, but it makes me happy to see where he's at now. one big happy family. Hooray! That is so, so exciting.

Blogger Dirkey said...
Wow, you can see the hope in his eyes!
So happy you are his family, what an amazing boy you have!

Anonymous jessie said...
CONGRATULATIONS! HAPPY DAY!

Blogger Jocelyn said...
There are so many moments of despair in the world. You have just counteracted about 12,000 of them for me. I am absolutely teary for you and Slugger.

He is gorgeous. His reasoning is gorgeous. This post is gorgeous.

Blogger M3 said...
Look at you with a big ole picture of YOUR SON at the top of the blog. So, so cool. Congratulations on the signed paperwork!!!! Absolutely wonderful.

Anonymous MichelleL said...
Congratulations! After reading about him for all this time it is so great to put a face to the stories. He is a handsome young man.

Very happy that you got through the process and everything is legal.

Blogger Michelle said...
Wow. I haven't stopped by in quite awhile, and then to pop in on such a great day! Congrats!

Michelle

Blogger Andrea said...
Congratulations!!

Blogger Carrie said...
He's beautiful. Congratulations my friend this has been a LONG time coming!!

Blogger Ani said...
Congratulations! Happy family day! What a handsome son you have!

Blogger Allison said...
What a CUTIE! Congratulations to both of you!

Blogger Kim said...
How exciting, congrats!!

Anonymous Cathrin said...
What a beautiful kid!!
I'm shedding a little tear of joy...

Cathrin from Germany
(who is a big fan of yours, your parenting, your writing! Thank you so much for sharing your journey!)

Blogger Rhonda said...
Yeah!! Congratulations to both of you. You've waited a very long time for this...

Blogger Jeannette said...
He is beautiful and so are you. Congratulations, mama!

Blogger MMrussianadoption said...
I cannot believe I am sooo behind in reading your blog. Congrats Maggie and Slugger. He is so handsome. Wait until he starts dating. You can just tell he will be a charmer. Yay, your wait is finally over.

Anonymous Heidi said...
Hip hip hooray!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OpenID dusobrown said...
Delurking to say Congratulations to you both, it's official!! Thanks foro sharing pictures - Slugger is a handsome boy with a gorgeous grin :)
Julie

Blogger Bean said...
I'm here by way of Her Grace...

Congratulations...I know the journey has been long but now I'm sure it's all been worth it.

Lots of hugs to you!

Blogger Kelly said...
HOORAY!! HIP HIP HOORAY!!! On a day when all seems sad to us, reading this post and seeing your beautiful boy brings much needed joy to my heart!! HOORAY HOORAY and again HOORAY!!!!!!!!

Blogger kris said...
I'm crying I'm so happy :O) It's been too long since seeing his adorable face...

I'm so happy for your one, big, happy family.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
nahsz
How wonderful! I can almost fell the waves of relief rolling out of my computer. YOUR SON is a real cutie.

Barb

Blogger Tricia said...
I was surprised to click through to a new template, and better yet ... pics of Slugger!

Congrats ... wow!

Blogger Debbie B said...
Love the pic in the header! So glad it's final. One big hsppy family is the best reason ever! Great to finally 'meet' your son.

Blogger Christine said...
Congrats Maggie! But I always considered you guys a family a long time ago!

Anonymous AA said...
Congratulations to both of you. He is a cutie! (My son wears glasses too- for a little over a year now. Don't know why I am mentioning that except that I notived it and it is cute to me.)

I wish you both all the best.

Blogger Tudu said...
He is so much cuter with a face. Congratulations!

Blogger Jenn said...
Congratulations!

He is so handsome! I'm glad to finally see his face.

Blogger Michelle Sapp said...
CONGRATULATIONS!!! Finally. Officially the forever family you have always felt since Slugger came into your life :-)

Blogger kim said...
Congratulations!!! I especially like the picture with the dog! Also, your new blog look is great.

{{{Hugs}}}

Blogger Amanda said...
Yay!!! Such a handsome son you have, Maggie. Big Congratulations!!!!

Blogger Melissa said...
What a handsome boy with a beautiful smile! Congratulations!! (and I love that he is studying up on the counter!)

Blogger jessy said...
LOVE THE PICTURES!! He is such a handsome young man. You could just get lost in those brown eyes.

Anonymous Laura said...
CONGRATULIONS on being a big, happy family. Your Slugger is very handson.

Blogger Lauren said...
Congratulations to both of you!!!!!!

And of course he is a cutie.

Blogger Starfish said...
Yay! Congratulations! And what a beautiful face he has! Such a happy smile. How wonderful.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
YAY!! I am in tears AND have goose bumps! I have followed your journey with Slugger for a long time now. You don't know me, but I am another adoptive parent and I have learned so much from your posts. So nice to finally see Sluggers handsome mug!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Blogger Beverly said...
Well he is certainly a cutie and I can see why it would be difficult to discipline. He has the most adorable innocent eyes!! CONGRATS TO SLUGGER AND YOU!!

Beverly

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Oh my - what a handsome young man! Gee, I bet the girls think he is wonderful. Congratulations to you and Slugger! I know that you all will forever be family - "We are family" (the song) Hopefully this will be encouragement for Slugger to believe in himself and know that he is unconditionally loved.

Mary McG
in TN

Blogger Ahauna said...
Congratulations to you both! (tears of joy streaming down my face) I am so happy for you and your beautiful son, Slugger.

Blogger jeneflower said...
Congrats! He is gorgeous!

Blogger 6blessings said...
Absolute congratulations!! No two people deserve it more! I'm thrilled that it's final!

Blogger Chelsea said...
He is beautiful! Just perfect! Congratulations on your forever family my dear!

Blogger Michelle Smiles said...
Congrats! And what a cutie!

Blogger PIPO said...
Hooray to the official family! And, Slugger, so nice to finally 'meet' you :0)

All the best!

Blogger Magpie said...
Congratulations, and yes, he's one cute kid!

Blogger Jenni said...
Doing a happy, happy dance for you and Slugger!